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Wednesday, June 23, 2010 9:00 AM
Ashley
How many children will you have?
The decision to bring a child into the world should be one of the most important choices you make, but how many will you have?
Large families used to be the norm; however, today the average number of children per household is just two. Many factors come into play when deciding how many children you and your partner will have, including:
1) Finances: A family's financial situation is the number one factor when deciding when and how many children to have. Supplying your children with food, clothing, toys and all the essentials can cost more than you expect.
2) Housing: Do you have room for a ton of kids in your home? Some don't mind having their children share rooms, while others like to have one room per child. What category do you fall under? Will you need to change your living arrangements for the family you wish to have?
3) Childcare: Childcare can cost more than a person's salary. If you have more than one child, it sometimes doesn't make financial sense to work. Unless you are fortunate enough to have a family member who will watch your children for a discounted price or free of cost, childcare can be a big factor when deciding how many children to have.
4) Fertility: Some women struggle to conceive and may only have one child. Others who struggle with fertility and choose to seek treatment might end up blessed with multiples.
Do you wish to follow the trend and have a family of two children or will you venture for more?
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re: How many children will you have?
Friday, June 25, 2010 6:37 AM by
Michelle
I am expecting baby #6 in Nov, this as far as I can say now, will be my last one.
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re: How many children will you have?
Friday, June 25, 2010 10:29 AM by
Nelle
i am expecting #3 in december, and i come from a family of 9. i love big familys, and although we only live on one salary and may not get to go on fancy vacations, have a boat and a brand new house, etc. i think that it is more than worth it! the most important thing you can give your children growing up is love and care, isn't that what matters in the end? i would love to have 5 or 6 kids.
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re: How many children will you have?
Saturday, June 26, 2010 6:35 AM by
Amanda
I just had #3 and I would love to have more I come from a family of 4 and my husband is 1 of 13. I love having a big family lots of noise lots of love and never a dull moment. I wouldn't change it for the world!!!
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re: How many children will you have?
Saturday, June 26, 2010 8:18 AM by
Melissa
We are expecting baby number 2 in December, this is my 5th high oak pregnancy, we have 3 angel babies and one gorgeous two year old. I think I'm done having children, but my husband wants more. Maybe another in a few years?! Otherwise I'm sure we'll adopt. We still dot know how many children we want, I think our financial situation will control it more than anything else.
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re: How many children will you have?
Saturday, June 26, 2010 2:50 PM by
Nina
I recently had baby # 3 and that's more than enough for us as this pregnancy was not a planned one... sshhh our little secret. But having him right now in my arms has changed my prespective a whole lot. My husband and I have always believed that small families live a lot better giving each one the attention, love and dedication they deserve, that's why the decision of not having anymore children we opted to have my tubes tied.
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re: How many children will you have?
Sunday, June 27, 2010 5:22 PM by
Molly
We have 2 babies, one girl 4 & 1 boy 9 months. Everyone assumed we were done. Even though we suffered 2 miscarriages between our daughter & son we will be trying for #3 in a year. Bringing a baby into the world is the most amazing thing my husband & I have shared together. I would love to have 4, but I will feel so grateful to have 3 healthy babies.
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re: How many children will you have?
Monday, June 28, 2010 6:05 AM by
Tavius
I am pregnant with number 7. I think I want 8, why I don't know but it just feels to be pregnant and have a healthy baby.
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re: How many children will you have?
Monday, June 28, 2010 7:15 AM by
Chelsea
My husband and I just had baby #2 and we would like to have two more! We love having a family. It brings us so much joy and our little girl loves being a big sister to her baby brother!
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re: How many children will you have?
Monday, June 28, 2010 10:55 AM by
martie
I am pregnant with our 8th baby. And while large families are not the norm, it is right for us. If I was younger, I might consider having more. But it seems for us 8 is a great place to complete our family.
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re: How many children will you have?
Monday, June 28, 2010 11:16 AM by
amanda
i am corrently pregnant with number 2. i have always told my self and husband that i will try 3 times for a girl and if not succed we will adopt a girl. i cant pitcher any more then 4 kids and we want at lest one of each so it makes since to adopt at number 4.
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re: How many children will you have?
Tuesday, June 29, 2010 6:04 AM by
Becky
I now have 2 boys and a baby girl (5, 3 1/2, 4 mos). We feel very blessed to have these three and will have 5 or 6 total. I have 8 sisters, no brothers, and I love having a big family. There's always something exciting going on and someone to talk to. Children really need so much less than what most people think they need. The basics don't really cost that much. We just think they need TV's, video games, brand new toys and clothes. Kids just need time and a lot of love! We are happy with our three and will be grateful to have a few more as the years go by. :)
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re: How many children will you have?
Tuesday, June 29, 2010 8:03 AM by
Mere
I am pregnant with our second child. We have one girl, 3 years old, and both of these pregnancies were unplanned, but definitely desired. We have thought that if this baby is another girl, we might try for a third in a couple of years. If we decide not to, or if we get a boy, my husband is having a vasectomy. We love our daughter, and love being a family, and will love however many kids God blesses us with! We just don't have the money, space, or desire to have so many pregnancies and so many children. Two is great... three is great... four would begin to be too many for us. I've never wanted a family with more than four kids; he is one of four himself and doesn't see reason to have more than three. Since we got pregnant immediately after getting married, we'd like to have some time in our marriage that we don't have kids in the house in our lives, if possible, so we plan to stop. That DOES mean I'll be one of the youngest moms by the soccer field!
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re: How many children will you have?
Tuesday, June 29, 2010 3:02 PM by
Toni
I have a 14 year old boy, a 10 year old girl, and a 4 month old girl. We thought we were done after the two, the third came as a surprise. She is a wonderful surprise though! Now I'm considering another one in a year or two to grow up with the baby.
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re: How many children will you have?
Tuesday, June 29, 2010 3:27 PM by
Catey
What a treat to see so many comments from those with large families!! We are expecting #8 in a few weeks and are hoping to add one or two more. Like someone else mentioned, money is tight and so is space, and we may not have the fancy extras like boats or new cars or big vacations, it is more than worth it! All that other stuff is just stuff anyway!
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re: How many children will you have?
Wednesday, June 30, 2010 7:28 AM by
Annemarie
I am so happy to read the comments of so many large families. We have been blessed with 6 children and although there isn't alot of money for luxuries, there is plenty of love in the house. The kids always have someone to play with. They are never lonely. My husband and I have learned that no matter what WE think is best for us, God knows better. So we are leaving it up to Him to decide how many children we will have. Everytime we get nervous about the number of kids we have, or financial struggles, we look at our family and realize that we wouldn't change a thing. Everyone who says it's worth it is absolutely right!
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re: How many children will you have?
Wednesday, June 30, 2010 9:57 AM by
Michelle
I am in my 5th pregnancy. I have miscarried twice and I have a 3 1/2 yr old daughter and 2 1/2 yr old son, they are 11 months apart. This little girl is due in October. Although I think it would be great to have a huge family, I have lost two and had very rough pregnancies with these three. So we've decided to stop after this one. Three is enough for us. On the bright side, we conceived our first child 2 months after we married, so it'll be nice to have some alone time together and go out in the world after our kids are grown. I'll be 40 years old when all three are graduated, so that's still young enough to have some fun :) I'm also going back to college this August to complete my teaching degree now that we decided this will be the last one.
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re: How many children will you have?
Wednesday, June 30, 2010 11:11 AM by
cassie langer
God bless you all with the big fams (and everyone else raising Gods miracles)! Many others will not understand your reasonings, but it is awesome to see! We are due in October with lucky #7. We thought we were done with 6, but God had a different plan and now we have decided that the number is TOTALLY in His hands and we love that! It is very freeing. I will be 42 when this baby is born, so maybe we will just run out of time. Yes, we are tight on money and space and some other things, but never love and excitement. We have 5 boys and a girl, so it is pretty crazy at times...especially in a 2 bedroom, 1800's log home. Granted, we have 50 acres and lots of outbuildings which include a family room in the barn with bunk beds and couches. Some people think kids these days need so much. The love and attention received by family is what makes a child secure, strong and loving to others.
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re: How many children will you have?
Wednesday, June 30, 2010 4:33 PM by
Kathryn
We just had #4 in April. I have always wanted a large family - at least 6 children, but ideally 8 (or more!). My husband initially wanted 1 or 2 children, but we kept going. To hear him tell it - I talked him into it...but I don't recall much of a fight! Right now he's more apprehensive about having more. He lost his higher-paying job a few weeks ago and our future is a little more uncertain than it has been in the past. We're living off of savings right now and we should be fine until the end of the year. However, I'm pretty confident that he will find something fairly soon and we'll be back on track. He was talking about getting a vasectomy just last night and I explained that I didn't think it was wise to make that decision right now. I didn't feel it right to do anything so definitive right now. I just don't feel as though our family is complete. I guess only time will tell what will happen. I hope we're not done, and we won't be done for quite some time. But, it is a partnership. We'll have to compromise one way or the other.
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re: How many children will you have?
Wednesday, June 30, 2010 5:50 PM by
desiree
I am pregnant with our first, a girl. my husband wants just one but I think his want for a boy will come soon but either way I would be happy with just one, definitely not more than two!
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re: How many children will you have?
Thursday, July 01, 2010 4:58 AM by
Nancy
I just had baby #1 and have always wanted a big family at least 4kids. My husband cant even handle our newborn and it sucks because he doesnt want anymore
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re: How many children will you have?
Thursday, July 01, 2010 2:42 PM by
bre
I had baby #1 in March and I definately want atleast 2 more. we had 3 miscarriages before our son was born and we almost lost him at 6wks preg. the doctors found out what was wrong so hopefully when we do decide to have another then we wont have any issues. I definately want a girl. I am one of three and my hubby is a twin and one of six....twins would be GREAT!! but either way i cant wait for a girl.
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re: How many children will you have?
Friday, July 02, 2010 6:53 AM by
Tiffany
Baby #3 just turned 1 last week and she has 2 and a half year old twin brothers..I thought I was done after them being a single mom but she came as a complete surprise but I wouldnt change having her for anything. Maybe in a couple of years I would like to have one or two more but that all depends on our financials.
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re: How many children will you have?
Friday, July 02, 2010 9:17 AM by
maggie
its tricky really. May be with a bit of advice from here and there I can actually decide. I have three now, youngest being 9 months. Am a professional woman and am finding it difficult to mix being a good mother and meeting the demands of work too. How do some manage really. I wouldn't mind a dozen more, but how do I mix the two?
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re: How many children will you have?
Friday, July 02, 2010 10:37 AM by
maryam
I have one girl.I love big families,but i don't know if i have health to do what i have according mine,I'm not patient enough.kids need alot .i want 5 at least
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re: How many children will you have?
Friday, July 02, 2010 10:37 AM by
maryam
I have one girl.I love big families,but i don't know if i have health to do what i have according mine,I'm not patient enough.kids need alot .i want 5 at least
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re: How many children will you have?
Friday, July 02, 2010 1:18 PM by
patti
baby # 5 here on its way in late july surprise for us!!! also gonna be grandma an grandpa for the first time in nov. kinda crazy . o but what fun !!
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re: How many children will you have?
Saturday, July 03, 2010 9:52 AM by
sharon
trying so hard this year for baby number 7. We have had 3 miscarriages this year it been hard. Just tested positive , Will wait for the outcome. We want another child we just don't feel complete. we currently have 2 boys, then 2 girls and our last 2 were boys all in that order. Would love another girl but most of all a completed pregnancy with a healthy child would be an awesome blessing
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re: How many children will you have?
Saturday, July 03, 2010 7:12 PM by
missy s.
We have 11 yr. old twin girls, a 10 yr. old girl, an 8 yr. old girl, and a 6 1/2 mnth old boy. I will be 48 in Dec. but we will take as many as the good Lord sees fit to bless our family with!
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